But J-Lo seems to be a bit hesitant to spend time with Ben and his ex-wife and her partner. “Ben doesn’t understand why J-Lo won’t give Jennifer and John a chance – he thinks it would be a lot of fun and great for the kids,” the source said.

“The situation touches a raw nerve for him because it’s J-Lo telling him who he can and can’t be friends with,” the source continued, “He hates how they come across as anti-social when they turn down invites.”

Things did seem good between the couple a few weeks ago when Ben threw J-Lo a party for her 54th birthday in July. But it’s been claimed in recent months that the newlyweds aren’t in their honeymoon phase anymore and have been experiencing tension in the relationship, and this might be the newest hurdle. The source stressed: “It’s an issue that’s not going away.”